Rina answers: The lie of a lifetime

There is a strange “balance of horror” when there is an age difference between two people.

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Rina Carafano

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If the older man starts to look a lot like her father, then something is off.

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Why do men approaching 50 say they are younger when they meet a much younger woman?

From – Alexia

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I think it's understandable that someone in their 20s would see someone over 50 as almost a dinosaur. It is the distorted view of youth.

(By the way. It's the same reason why it's almost impossible for a young girl to understand what a man finds romantic in an older woman. Well, it's the patriarchy too. Is March missing from Lent?)

Men in their 50s begin to experience organic problems with erection, duration, and energy. If they are negligent in taking care of their health, more problems will arise.

But mainly there is a strange “balance of terror” in the eyes of older men by younger women within the patriarchy (as well as vice versa, from the point of view of minors): age is seen in a masculine man as an advantage in a sense of security, protection, experience, knowledge of life, economic comfort, Social rehabilitation. But this also has limits. If the older man starts to look a lot like her father, then something is off. The prohibition of incest is strong, even if we say psychoanalytically that a girl searching for a paternal model is attracted to adults. Maybe, but not always, and not with an eternal horizon.

I imagine men who lie about their age to young women take this into consideration. Not that age doesn't show up in a thousand ways when you're committed enough, no matter what one does on the outside. It is a matter of mentality and innocence.